Showing posts with label friends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friends. Show all posts

Thursday, May 27, 2010

SOOOO Blessed!!!!!

I LOVE my life!!! I might complain [often] about certain circumstances that are currently occuring in my life, but the more I think about it [which I do a LOT] the more I realize just how BLESSED I really am!!!

I've got an AMAZZZZING family!!! I've got GRRRREAT friends (new AND old)!!! I've got a place to lay my head at night (thanx Mom & Dad)!!! I've got health (well...sort of)!!! I've got a job that helps me to pay my bills & allows me to keep my "toys"!!! I'm a member of the TRUE church on Earth, the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints!!!

It's this last point that I'd like to touch on today!!

The leaders of the Church are TRULY inspired men!! It's because of this inspiration & their LOVE that I'm able to attend an Institute class for "Mid-Singles" (ages 27-40) from the Salt Lake/Davis/Weber County areas.

The class started up around the same time that I moved home (mid-February) & that couldn't have happened at a better time!!! The class meets Weds nights from 7-8ish-pm in Centerville. If you're interested in knowing some of the "going-ons" of this group you can find out at: ldsmidsingles.org or on Facebook under "27-40 Mid-Singles LDS Religion Class" (shameless plug)

Anywho...I'm hoping to have another excuse to be more consistent in my blogging by posting a blog or two about the lessons that we have so I can hopefully share some of what I learn!!

If you're reading this blog you MUST be a part of one of the first two catergories of "blessings" that I mentioned at the beginning of this blog & for that I THANK YOU!!! You have TRULY been a blessing in my life & have made it possible for me to be where & WHO I am today!!!

LYB!!!!!

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Me Doth Think TOO Much!!!!

These last two months (Oct/Nov) have been VERY disheartening for me!! Not just because of circumstances in MY life, but due to events/losses in the life's of some friends!!! One LOVEd one passed after a LONG battle with Myelodysplastic Syndrome, another passed suddenly after a dentist appointment & yet another was hit by an automobile!! These last two losses have made me think/ponder more & MORE about how short or brief our time might be with those we LOVE!! We just never know when it's someone's "time" to "go"!!! I know this is a VERY sensitive subject...emotionally!! But it's what's been on my mind as of late & I just needed to get it down!! I know I'm not going to give my thoughts or emotions justice, but I'll just have to deal with that!!

I want to let EVERYONE that reads this, whether we are Family, GRRRREAT Friends or simply Acquaintances, that I truly appreciate you being in my life!! I'm certain I could go thru each one of your names & give at least ONE example of how you've influenced, nay...IMPACTED, my life, but then I'd NEVER get thru this blog!!

PPPPPLEASE just know that I LOVE & appreciate you & the fact that we have been/were brought together!!! THANK YOU!!!!!!!

I LOVE YOU ALL VERY MUCH!!!!!!!

LYB!!!!!

Monday, October 5, 2009

Ferron Peach Days Demolition Derby_09122009

Oh the FUN days of Summer!!! And the MANY city "days"!! There's the Pleasant Grove "Strawberry Days" & rodeo, the Payson "Onion Days" & the Ferron "Peach Days" & demolition derby!! MMMM...fruit & cream!!! What an AMAZING combination!!!!

Last year was my first year at the Ferron PD & DD. It wasn't really the best experience of my life, but it WAS entertaining seeing who comes out to these things (soo WT)!!

This year I was able to make it down earlier in the day so I got to spend some time with my friend's family & friends!!!









{I LOVE the white trashness of the demo derby!!!}

{Mulletts RULE!!!!}

{I was laughing SOOO hard when I saw this shirt!!!
I just HAD to get a pic of it!!!}



LYB!!!!!

Most Important Day...Sept 3rd!!!!!

I DEFINITELY should have posted about this day on the said day, but...I didn't!! I try to avoid mentioning this day at all costs!! I think in the back of my mind I hope for a "Sixteen Candles" b-day!! Don't get me wrong...I LOVE when people REMEMBER my b-day!!! I just don't like having to REMIND people that it's here!! If you LOVE me you'll remember!!!

Anywho...this year one of my BESTEST friends on the planet arranged to have a b-day dinner for me!! This year I chose Pizza Factory because ON your b-day you can get a pizza in the shape of your age!! I actually had been thinking about this for a couple of weeks & was trying to think of a number that would get me the MOSTEST pizza!! I chose the number "88"!! I figured I could get away with that number!!!!







{SHEER JOY!!! "Why" you might ask?!?!}


{Here's WHY!!!! I LOVE my Family!!
They know EXACTLY what makes me happy!!!!}


LYB!!!!!

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Attitude...Improving It!!!

I've been doing my usual "deep thinking" lately, which isn't good cause it gets me down, which is LAME cause I've had some GRRREAT times with family & friends (old & new)!! Just the other day I was talking with a dear friend about memories...how is it that some of the best memories can be buried deep in our consciences, yet the not-so-good ones are readily available & nearly impossible to forget?!?! Don't get me wrong...I pride myself on being a "rememberer"...almost TOO good...what I'm referring to is times, people & experiences that should not be dwelt on that just can't seem to get out of my head!! It's VERY frustrating!! All well..."life goes on and life is good"!!! (MA.T.)

Of course I know that life has it's challenges & my family hasn't had the best of luck lately with medical issues...Father in the hospital with bleeding ulcers, Jodester wiping out on the Alpine Slide, & Mother having a 12-pound cyst removed from her abdomen. But then there are good things coming about as well...baby Charlotte due ANY DAY NOW!!!

Well...with all this going on I've been trying to think of ways that I can improve my attitude...not only personal but professional as well!! One of my all-time favorite quotes on attitude is from Charles Swindoll:
"The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life.
Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than failures, than successes. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company. . . a church. . . a home.
The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past. . . we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is attitude. . . . I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it."

A GRRREAT example of this positive attitude is a gentle-man by the name of George D Durrant. I first met Bro Durrant while on my mission in the Great White North. Bro Durrant was serving as a CES missionary & EVERYtime anyone greeted this fine brother & aksed him how he was doing he would reply: "My Best Day So Far!!" It didn't matter how many people aksed him it was always the same response!!

All this being said, my boss sent me the following in an email earlier today that I feel is good enough to share with EVERYONE:

Do You Want a Smile With That?
By: Michelle Joyce

The McDonald’s drive thru in Huntersville, North Carolina, has personal face-to-face service. (I actually put my car in reverse because I thought I had missed the intercom!) When I drove up to the window, the friendliest guy on the planet greeted me with an energetic, “Good Morning! How are you today?” I was stunned.

I am not a big fan of fast food – or their lack of customer service – but when I drove through this particular McDonald’s to get a cup of coffee on my way to work, my attitude changed. This smiling employee actually put me in a better mood.

He was happy and friendly. He greeted me and engaged me in conversation before he took my order. He then offered a variety of options that I didn’t know existed. A simple cup of coffee turned into a medium, sugar-free vanilla, non-fat latte. And when the transaction was over, he thanked me, wished me well, and told me to “drive safely” on my way to work.

I received better customer service in those 30 seconds, than I did when I bought a brand new car last year. And this guy didn’t even work on commission.

As I drove to work, I continued to think about the transaction. Salespeople often get into a routine of saying the same thing, in the same tone, and in the same sequence every day. But this worker’s positive attitude and desire to serve was inspiring. I didn’t expect this type of “VIP treatment” at a fast food joint, and I was blown away at the pride that this gentleman took in his job. The more I recalled the event, the more I realized… if this guy could evoke this much emotion from me over a medium, sugar-free vanilla, non-fat latte, then what kind of a difference could I make in the lives of my prospective customers today? I was up for the challenge.

The plan was simple. All I had to do was follow the three steps that made this transaction so memorable:

1. Start with a smile and engage your prospect in a friendly manner. Would you do business with someone you didn’t like? Well, neither would your prospect. This guy made me like him – immediately. And when he made that connection, the transaction became enjoyable. And it was all about me, not just my order.

2. Offer alternative solutions. People want choices. And just because you can recite all the bells and whistles of your products in your sleep, don’t assume that your customer is aware of them. Uncover their needs and help them make a choice. McDonald's already mastered the upsell technique with their famous line, “Do you want fries with that?” What kind of additional features and services can you upsell? Better asked, what kind of additional revenue are you leaving on the table at every sale?

3. End the transaction with something memorable. When is the last time that a fast food worker told you to “drive safely”? I am used to the generic lines of “thank you” and “have a nice day”; but this guy was genuinely concerned about my personal safety. (Or at least he made me feel that way.) What are you saying to your customers that make them remember you personally? What differentiates you from every other salesperson?

The plan is simple. But it’s not a matter of understanding these principles; it’s a matter of you actually practicing them every day. I am thankful that a friendly person reminded me of what it takes to be great in sales and service. I needed that kind of jolt to refocus my attention to the simple details that work – and away from the “doom” that everyone keeps talking about. The reality is that people are still buying products and services in this economy. The only question is will they buy them from you?

Focus on these three steps today:
1. Greet a new friend.
2. Up sell something.
3. And make them remember you.

Oh, and if you are ever in Huntersville, North Carolina, stop by the McDonalds on Statesville Road. Ask for Burg – he will take excellent care of you. (be careful of the up sell!)

**Sales Caffeine Issue 404, Aug 4 2009, Jeffrey Gitomer (Publisher), http://www.gitomer.com/salesMagazine/PrintableEzine.html?key=ajcdMibak3OArFpX8WdWvA%3D%3D

These principles don't have to apply just to "sales"!! They can apply to ALL aspects of our lives!! I always hear "can one person really make a difference?!" Well...I believe they can!! I LOVE the movie "Pay It Forward"...even though it's depressing as H***!!! The underlying point is what really matters!! "Things" have to start someplace & why not with me (or you)!!! I hope that I can take what I've written into my life daily...NO...every second!!!

LYB!!!!!

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

A VERY Special THANK YOU!!!!!

This last week/weekend has been one full of emotions for many reasons!! But the toughest part was leaving a place & people that have become very dear to me!! Change is good yet SOOO hard on the heart!! I'm VERY grateful for the acceptance I have felt in this place where oftimes I was as a fish out of water!! There is no way for me to put into words the gratitude I feel for these LOVing individuals that opened their arms & hearts & willing accepted an "outsider" into their midst!!! Thank you SOOOO much "Ladies" for what you've done for me over these last 9 months!!! I owe you all my life!! I hope y'all will call on me for ANYthing!!! I will miss you ALL & will LOVE you always!!! All joking aside!!!!!

LYB!!!!!

Sunday, March 22, 2009

Cecily B's B-day_Fat Cats_03162009

Second only to spending time with my Family is...spending time with my Friends!!  And bowling none-to-boot!!!  Thanks Friends for including me in the FUN!!!!!


LYB!!!!!

Sunday, March 8, 2009

Baby Wright's Baby Shower_03032009!!

Over the past several months I've been dwelling WAY too much on the "things" that I don't have or have lost instead of appreciating the "things" that I do have. This last week I had a few experiences that brought this fact to my attention & helped me see the error of my ways!!

I'd like to share one such experience now!!

The last several semesters of my college "life" I had the WONDERFUL priveledge of "volunteering" at the Orem Institute of Religion & becoming good friends with the office staff!! I spent nearly every morning (& every evening) helping w/registration & what ever else they requested!! One of these staff members is a friend of mine that I made in one of my wards (Orem College 16th), StashaLee!! StashaLee & Doug met in our ward & were married in 2007. I've become good enough friends with these ladies (& Doug), that I was invited to a baby shower for Doug & StashaLee's boy that is due in the next 5 weeks!! Following are just some of the pictures from this occasion:

{MOST of the attendees}

{YES...I picked this out ALL BY MYSELF!!!!}

{A couple of the other gifts given/received}


The reason I post this as one of my "experiences" is because of the great LOVE & acceptance that I feel from these WONDERFUL Sisters by being included in this time-honored "female" tradition!! These AMAZING Sisters helped to keep me active & going strong during this period of my life!! I am FOREVER indebted to them!!!

LYB!!!!!

Thursday, March 5, 2009

Nick's B-day Celebration 2009!!!

So...I LOVE to eat & I LOVE to celebrate special occasions & when the opportunity comes that they come hand-in-hand...I'm ALL for it!!!

Tuesday (03/03/09) was my good friend Nick's b-day!! He's not been around to join in the festivities the last couple of years because he's is in the Caribbean going to medical skool @ St George's University. This year HE'S lucky enough to have his new wife, Ku'ulei, there to celebrate it with him!! I miss them both VERY much, but that's not the point of this blog!! The point is...well...there really is no "point" I just wanted to let Nick & Ku'ulei know that we're thinking of them if though they're MILES away!! I hope you had a good one Buddy!!! BACOCNAOI...ACS!!!!!!

This year a few of Nick's friends got together at Bangkok Grill (one of Nick's favorite food establishments) to commemorate Nick's arrival to this world!! 3 out of the 4 of us enjoyed the Masaman (my FAVorite!!!) It was good getting together!! Oh how I miss the old days!!!

{Skoot, MandyAnn, Rob & Ben P enjoyin the BG!!}

I hope EVERYONE...ESPECIALLY Nick & Ku'ulei...had a WUNDERBAR day this last Tuesday!!! Whether it was celebrating a special day or just having a "good one"!!!

LYB!!!!!

Friday, December 12, 2008

Families ARE Eternal!!!!

Thursday (12/11/2008) my brother Charlie & his WONDERFUL wife Haley were sealed for TIME & ALL ETERNITY in the Salt Lake Temple!! It was an INCREDIBLE service for MANY reasons, but one in particular...

My uncle Rodney & I were discussing "things" in the marriage waiting room & we got talking about Paula (his wife who had passed away earlier this year after battling cancer; my Mother's only sibling) & how when he visited the temple the other day he could feel her there with him throughout different parts of the temple!! At the beginning of Charlie & Haley's sealing ceremony the sealor talked a great deal about "angels"!! He mentioned that "angels" are our LOVEd ones that had passed before us (and he gave a quote by Elder Neal Maxwell) & that these "angels" were there to witness the sealing!! This was ESPECIALLY meaningful seeing that Aunt Paula & the Grandparents on BOTH my Mother & Father's sides had passed away & were not with us...physically!! It was EXTREMELY comforting to know that Aunt Paula was sitting next to my Mother & that my Grandparents were filling the empty seats on the row next to me!!

Now for the picture portion!! I LOVE pictures!!!!!

Outside the Temple!!


The Luncheon!!


Family Lunchin' It Up!!!


Friends Partook As Well!!!


After Party Fun!!!




LYB!!!!!